幾年前有一則新聞頭條是一件超搞笑的網路騙案，
騙案的女主角居然是一個胖嘟嘟的 19 歲的高職女生！
她冒用某模特兒的照片，那張照片面容清純動人，身材佼好，
來往的 Email 都是一些火辣親密的內容，
最後她向每個無辜又無聊的男主角借錢，請他們把錢匯入某銀行帳號
並且她告訴所有的男主角她是某國立大學研究生，
家境很好，哥哥是醫生、姊姊是律師…
她彷佛就是含著金湯匙的白雪公主。
其實要怪就要怪那些男人太賤！太笨！
像個飛蛾一樣撲向別人幫你燃起的慾火！
君不見那些交友網站裡多的是妄想要一夜情的曠男怨女?
我猜那位高職女生應該是基於好玩，越玩越過癮，玩得過火了！
最後變成一則大笑話…
有人說網路交友陷阱太多，但好奇而趨之若鶩者又此起彼落。
有人說網路交友預期與實際落差太大，
通信好久了，甚至也通過電話了，談得也還投機，
更甚至還有對方的一張沙龍照的 Jpg 檔！
可是一見面就死了，被嚇死了！真是相見不如常懷念。
有人基於保護自己或者藏拙，
到約出來見面的那一天都不肯show 出自己的照片，或者坦誠溝通，
可是卻要求對方的照片、身家背景、學歷工作、戀愛經驗、星座血型、祖宗八代...
又期待、又怕受傷害、又想傷害對方、又抱怨對方以貌取人！
也有人說對方一開始就要照片，完全就是個「外貌協會」的
通信不到兩三次，每次不超過兩三行，就要求見面，會不會太猴急了？
也有人怨天尤人的說，附上俊男美女的照片，都是每天信都接不完
沒有附照片的卻又門可羅雀，難道網路族群都是這麼的現實膚淺？
沒有人在乎內在美嗎？更有第一封信就要求一夜情的性騷擾！
網路情到底靠不靠得住？相信各人經驗不同冷暖自知，
人的緣分有可能在網路上或者馬路上都有可能，
只是網路的面紗較厚、較神秘而撲朔迷離！
抱著不要預期的希望、或單純交個普通朋友的心情可能比較好，
記得網路交友剛開始發展的初期，
一些成熟的男女含蓄的以 Pen-pal 的態度，
謹慎的交換 Email 緩緩款款通信的感覺，其實還是不錯的！
附上一份在某交友網站上的一位美女，因信件太多感到無奈,
進而實際而直接地提出條件登在交友網站上，對這樣的真情告白雖然直接了當
卻也令人欣賞，讀起來她真的似乎是蠻無奈的卻也有趣 !
hi,
guys! nice to meet you here!!
first
of all, i have to say that i have been overwhelmed by all the friendly e-mails
I
have been receiving in the past couple days, and I just wanna express my
appreciation here. thanks, guys!!
However,
due to the limited amount of time, I am unable to reply every single mail...
hey,
i don't mean to sound rude here, but i do have to teach, eat, sleep, even walk
my dogs everyday! i hope you'll understand. So, I've decided to be more
"selective" now, here are my criteria...
1)
picuture!! i wanna know what you look like!
2)
content!! please be more creative! i hate reading those "one letter fits
all" messages! boring!!
3)
age!! sorry, but I am not here to meet uncles, babies, or grandpas.
now,
if you don't think you can meet the above criteria, I am sorry, don't write me.
but
if you think the aboves are just a piece of cake to you, congratulations!!
you
have just passed the initial sceenings. however, read on! these's more...
okay,
you all are going to hate me for this, but I have to be honest... i probably
won't reply to those who are not living in the U.S... the reason is simple: i
hardly ever go back to Taiwan! I have only been back twice in the past 14
years, that is about once every 7 years... so my next visit is probably going
to be in 2003...do you really wanna wait that long??
now
I have pretty much narrowed it down to those people who are in the states, i
guess it won't hurt to be more specific...instead of telling you what I expect,
i'll
tell you what I won't settle for...
1)
I am not for Nichole Kidman/Tom Cruise type, so if you are shorter than me,
sorry...but i am sure you'll find a cute petite lady one day...
2)
education/intelligence--you gotta be somewhat educated and smart...not geeky
though... I get bored very easily, you gotta keep me entertained with your
broad spectrums of knowledge...
3)
looks--yeah, call me superficial, but I do enjoy looking at cute guys better.
4)
if you dislike dogs, i dislike you.
5)
personality--i am not a serious person, so if you are...i'll be really scared
of you.
alright...that's
it for now...i'll update this if i find more things...
take
care now, everyone... ^_^
這封信讀起來是不是坦白實際，直接而有氣勢？
多可愛啊！
